Top Ways Parents Can Get Kids to Discuss School

Dec 04, 2019

Parents need to be in a good relationship with their children. But there are rocky points of miscommunication between the parents and the children. Most of the conversations after school and work are just ordinary and routine. Sometimes, schools can be a stressful and severe place for kids that separates them from their parents physically. Parents should pay attention to how they about the kids’ school. Avoid the silence by following the below tips as you are about to see the top ways parents can get kids to discuss their school.

Here is an everyday conversation of most of the parents and school children.

“How was the day at school?”

“Um, It was good.”

“Anything Interesting happen?”


1. Make the Question Interesting:

Ask the question interesting that might make them curious such as sports or TV or about their friends. This can make the kids open up about their colleagues, friends, and other things that might have happened in school. Just pay attention to attitude cues and radically shift the conversation to school. Don’t try to pander to the kids like their teachers do, just be friendly with them in asking each question

2. Back in My Times…

Just relate your times to their age as this makes them roll their eyes. Start talking about the dumb experiences you had at the school, make it humorous and eye-opening. This may not only make them feel interested, but they also might ask you about those days as well as sharing their days in school.

3. Don’t Let the Talks convert to Arguments:

Just be friendly while talking to your kids as this may make a strong bond between you and your child as this may automatically make you child say everything to you happened in school. Don’t make the talks convert to arguments by not letting their voices heard. Just listen to what they are really saying and don’t try to make any negative remarks.

4. Listen Carefully:

No one wants to speak with someone who doesn’t listen to their speech as there is no use. Your kid wants you to hear what he/she is saying. It may be a complaint about somebody in school or anything else. Just don’t frighten your kid by shouting in front of them. This might scare the child, and they just don’t want to share the things happened in school.

5. Be Honest:

Always be honest and don’t lie to your kids about anything. This may cause an adverse impact on you if the kids find out the truth someday. Then they might lie to you just to overcome the situation, and it can become a routine. Try to make them open up by connecting with them friendly.

6. Loosen Up:

All the school kids need downtime after the social drama of learning at school. Try a warm low key “Hi, welcome come” instead of interrogating the child with questions. You kid might want to talk to you about the school later or he/she might not. That is okay in the beginning, try to make them loosen up their thoughts about the school.

The trick is you just don’t have to push it too hard by asking too many questions. This makes them answer to you in one or two words depending on the questions. You don’t want answers such as “Yeah or Nah” from your kid, right?

7. Try asking about their peers:

If your children don’t open up to their schools to you, then probably it might be their peers they open up. This means that they are pulling closer to their peers. Try asking about their peers who might make them tell about their peers first and then they feel energetic and talks about their school.

Just hang on to a particular routine that your kid loves to do and ask when they are doing interesting stuff. It’s not every time you to start a conversation, but it can be your children. So, just make some room for your kids to talk about their friends, school and a lot more. You have to speak in a way that child listens to, and you need to hear to the kid.

Talk friendly to your kids as only this makes the kids open up to you everything.

You need to maintain a good relationship with your child as well as this not only makes your kid open up but also strengthens the emotional bond between the parents and the kid. It is a key to boost performance level of your kid.

Article Posted in: Academics

Sudipto Das

Sudipto writes educational content periodically for LearnPick Canada and backs it up with extensive research and relevant examples. He's an avid reader and a tech enthusiast at the same time with a little bit of “Arsenal Football Club” thrown in as well. He's got more than 5 years of experience in digital marketing, SEO and graphic designing.

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